Category: Inspiration

Those who fear you and wish to harm you try to make nothing of you. Keep that in mind when you look around and see who promotes what.

He was rejected from every college he applied to, so he took a job hauling garbage before sunrise — and the people society had written off were the ones who changed his life forever.

Until he was eight years old, Rehan Staton had a good life. He grew up in Bowie, Maryland, in a stable, middle-class home. He went to private school. He had two parents, a big brother named Reggie, and every reason to believe the future would be kind.

Then his mother left. She moved out of the country and didn’t come back.

Overnight, everything unraveled. Rehan’s father, now raising two boys alone, worked as many as three jobs at a time just to keep the lights on. Sometimes there wasn’t enough food. Sometimes the heat went out in winter, and Rehan slept in a heavy jacket because there was no other way to stay warm. His grades collapsed. The anger and hunger followed him into every classroom.

When a teacher suggested Rehan be placed in remedial classes, his father refused to accept it. He found an aerospace engineer at a local community center who offered to tutor Rehan for free. Within months, the boy was back on the honor roll. The teacher who had recommended remedial classes wrote his father an apology.

Rehan poured himself into boxing and martial arts through high school, winning national competitions and dreaming of going pro. Then, during his senior year, he suffered severe rotator cuff injuries in both shoulders. Without health insurance, physical therapy wasn’t an option. His path to professional sports was gone.

He scrambled to apply to colleges. Every single one rejected him.

So at eighteen years old, with no degree, no prospects, and a family struggling to survive, Rehan Staton took a job at Bates Trucking & Trash Removal. He collected garbage. He cleaned dumpsters. He started work before the sun came up.

Most of his co-workers were older men. Many were formerly incarcerated. Society had largely written them off. But these were the people who did something no teacher, no church leader, no guidance counselor had ever done for Rehan — they looked at him and saw potential.

They told him he was smart. They told him he was too young to be there. They said go to college, and if it doesn’t work out, this job will still be here.

It was the first time in his life that anyone outside his family had believed in him.

One of his co-workers connected him with the owner’s son, Brent Bates, who helped Rehan reach out to a professor at Bowie State University — a school that had previously rejected him. The professor was impressed and helped convince admissions to reverse their decision.

Then Rehan’s older brother Reggie made a decision that would alter the course of both their lives. Reggie was already enrolled at Bowie State. He saw the promise in his younger brother. And he dropped out of college so that Rehan could attend instead. Reggie went back to work to support their father and keep the family afloat — sacrificing his own education so his little brother could have a chance.

Rehan did not waste that chance.

He earned a 4.0 GPA. He transferred to the University of Maryland. He became president of the undergraduate history association, served on the dean’s cabinet, and was chosen as the commencement speaker for the class of 2018. The entire time, he kept working sanitation — waking before dawn to collect trash and clean dumpsters from 4 a.m. to 7 a.m., then rushing to class. Sometimes there was no time to shower between shifts, and he would sit in the back of the lecture hall in his yellow sanitation uniform, hoping no one would notice.

Then his father suffered a stroke. Rehan and Reggie both returned to work at the trash company to save their home and cover medical bills. Even then, Rehan didn’t stop. He graduated, took a job at a political consulting firm in Washington, D.C., studied for the LSAT, and applied to law schools.

He was accepted to the University of Southern California, Columbia, the University of Pennsylvania, Pepperdine — and Harvard Law School.

When the news went viral, Rehan was uncomfortable with how the media framed it. The headlines all said the same thing: “Garbage Man Gets Into Harvard.” But that wasn’t the story he wanted to tell. He wasn’t self-made. He said so himself. His father worked three jobs. His brother gave up his own education. Sanitation workers — men the world had discarded — were the first to lift him up. A tutor volunteered his time for free. A professor fought to get him admitted. A co-worker’s boss opened a door.

Then filmmaker Tyler Perry saw the story and offered to pay Rehan’s tuition at Harvard.

At Harvard Law, Rehan didn’t forget where he came from. During his second year, he was walking to class and greeted a custodian in the hallway. The woman looked stunned and said she was sorry — she didn’t realize he was talking to her. Students, she said, usually looked at the wall rather than acknowledge her.

That moment stayed with him. Rehan used savings from his summer law firm job to buy gift cards for every custodian, food service worker, and support staffer at the law school. He wrote each one a handwritten thank-you note. And he founded an initiative called The Reciprocity Effect — an organization dedicated to recognizing and honoring the service workers who keep universities and institutions running but are too often invisible.

In May 2023, Rehan Staton graduated from Harvard Law School.

When reporters asked him about his journey, he didn’t talk about grit or willpower or pulling himself up by his bootstraps. He said something that cut straight to the truth of it all: “Although I get credit for working hard, working hard was the easy part because that I could control. I just happened to be around people who cared enough about me.”

Rehan Staton’s story isn’t really about one man beating the odds. It’s about what happens when the people the world overlooks — a struggling father, a selfless brother, a group of sanitation workers with criminal records — choose to believe in someone. And what happens when that someone spends the rest of his life making sure he never forgets it.

Not every hero wears a suit. Some of them wear yellow sanitation uniforms and start work before the sun comes up.

The Dutch government took her away from her parents, confiscated her boat, and sent psychologists to prove she was unfit — all because a thirteen-year-old girl said she was going to sail around the world alone.

Laura Dekker didn’t dream of sailing around the world the way most children dream. She didn’t see it in a movie and think it seemed exciting. She didn’t read about it in a book and decide it sounded romantic. She knew it in her bones — the way some people know their own name.

She was born knowing, because she was born at sea.

In 1995, in the harbor town of Whangarei, New Zealand, Laura entered the world aboard her parents’ sailboat, midway through their seven-year voyage around the globe. The ocean was the first thing she knew. The rhythm of waves was her lullaby. The creak of rigging and the snap of canvas were the sounds of home.

For the first five years of her life, she lived on the water. When the family returned to the Netherlands, Laura’s parents divorced. She was six. She chose to live with her father, who had begun building a seventy-foot Norwegian fishing cutter by hand at a shipyard. They lived in a caravan next to the hull. Later, they moved aboard.

For her sixth birthday, Laura received an Optimist dinghy — a tiny single-sail boat that most children use to learn the basics in calm harbors on sunny days. Laura took hers out in storms, in hail, in winds that sent other children’s parents running for shore. She sailed nearly every day, regardless of weather. She was fearless.

For her eighth birthday, she received a book — Tania Aebi’s memoir about sailing solo around the world. She read it and felt something click inside her. That was it. That was what she was going to do.

By ten, Laura had convinced a friend of her father to let her restore and use his old Hurley 700 — a proper seven-meter seaworthy sailboat. That summer, she sailed it solo around Holland and the Wadden Islands for seven weeks. She was ten years old.

By thirteen, she was preparing in earnest. She sailed the Hurley solo from the Netherlands to England — a genuine open-water crossing. When she arrived, a friend’s mother reported her to the British authorities, who contacted the Dutch police. Her father was ordered to fly to England and sail back with her.

That was the beginning of a nightmare that Laura never saw coming.

When word reached the Dutch media that a thirteen-year-old was planning to sail alone around the world, the reaction was explosive. Child welfare authorities intervened. A family court placed Laura under shared custody with the Council for Child Care, effectively removing her parents’ authority over her. The police confiscated her boat. Psychologists were brought in to evaluate her mental state.

For a time, Laura was forced to live with foster parents. She wasn’t allowed to go home.

“They actually took the responsibility of my parents over me,” Laura said years later. “There was a time where I had to live with foster parents. So I wasn’t allowed to be at home. For me, it wasn’t a fight of whether I could sail or not. This was so much more than that.”

Eight separate court cases were filed over the next ten months. Judges who, as Laura pointed out, “had no idea about boats or sailing” were asked to decide whether she was capable. The Council for Child Protection argued that a thirteen-year-old’s brain was not mature enough for two years alone at sea. The entire country debated her case. International media descended.

Through it all, Laura held on. She kept preparing. She upgraded to a larger boat — a twelve-meter ketch that would also be named Guppy — and worked with her father for months to restore and equip it. She obtained a first aid diploma. She studied sleep management techniques. She learned how to stitch her own wounds. She learned how to put out fires aboard a vessel alone.

On July 27, 2010, the court lifted the guardianship order. The presiding judge said: “With this decision, the responsibility for Laura lies with her parents. It is up to them to decide whether Laura can set off on her sail trip.”

Her parents said yes.

On August 21, 2010, fourteen-year-old Laura Dekker sailed out of Gibraltar alone aboard Guppy, heading south into the Atlantic.

What followed were 518 days that forged a child into something more.

She crossed the Atlantic. She navigated the Caribbean, transited the Panama Canal, and entered the Pacific — the largest, loneliest body of water on earth. She sailed through French Polynesia, where she was deeply moved by people who lived in harmony with nature. She threaded through the dangerous Torres Strait, navigating coral reefs and shipping lanes. She rounded the Cape of Good Hope off the South African coast in sixty-five-knot winds that could tear a sail apart or capsize a vessel.

When things broke, she fixed them herself. When sails ripped, she climbed up and replaced them in darkness. When storms raged, she held her course. When calms settled for days or weeks, she waited.

There were moments of crushing loneliness — weeks without seeing another human face. And there were moments of transcendent beauty. Sunrises that turned the entire sky into a canvas of colors she had never known existed. Dolphins that swam alongside Guppy for hours, as if escorting her. Nights when the stars were so thick and bright they seemed to swallow the darkness whole.

On January 21, 2012, Laura Dekker sailed Guppy into Simpson Bay, Sint Maarten. She was sixteen years and 123 days old. She had covered over 27,000 nautical miles. She had crossed every ocean. She had become the youngest person to sail solo around the world.

She didn’t cry at the finish. She didn’t give grand speeches. In later interviews, she said the moment felt strange — because the journey hadn’t been about the record. It had been about the freedom she’d been fighting for since she was thirteen years old.

“For me, that trip was really the beginning of my life,” Laura said years later. “Everything I have now has everything to do with that trip.”

After the voyage, Laura made a decision that shocked many: she renounced her Dutch citizenship. The government that had tried to take her from her parents, confiscated her boat, and sent her to foster care did not feel like home. New Zealand — the country where she was born, at sea, during her parents’ own circumnavigation — did. She became a New Zealand citizen.

She went on to become the youngest person to obtain a Yachtmaster Ocean Certificate. She wrote a book, One Girl, One Dream, published in four languages. She appeared on Dutch reality shows and won an expedition competition in extreme Arctic conditions. And she founded the Laura Dekker World Sailing Foundation — an organization dedicated to giving young people the chance to learn what the ocean taught her.

When asked what she would do if her own children came to her with an impossible dream, Laura’s answer was simple. She wouldn’t say it was unrealistic. She wouldn’t say it was too dangerous. She would say: “Okay, that’s great. What are the steps to achieve that? And can we do that together?”

Because Laura Dekker knows something that courts, psychologists, and child welfare authorities could not measure with any test. She knows that the people who change the world are never the ones who wait for permission.

They’re the ones who set sail anyway.

“Property may be destroyed and money may lose its purchasing power; but, character, health, knowledge and good judgment will always be in demand under all conditions.”
Roger Babson – Educator (1875 – 1967)

• Prepare before disaster strikes with essential supplies and a clear plan.
• Build a 72-hour disaster kit with water, food, and critical safety items.
• Create and practice a family communication and evacuation plan regularly.
• Include your vehicle in preparedness with a kit, and keep the fuel tank full.
• Maintain readiness through ongoing reviews, drills, and safe generator use.

When disaster strikes your community, will your family be ready? Emergency managers across the nation are sounding the alarm that preparedness is no longer optional but a fundamental responsibility for every household.

“It’s not a question of if; it’s a question of when,” says Dale White, an emergency preparedness manager. The time to prepare is now, before the earthquake trembles, the floodwaters rise, or the wildfire smoke darkens the sky.

The cornerstone of readiness is a disaster supplies kit that enables your family to be self-sufficient for at least 72 hours. Authorities emphasize that help may not arrive immediately, and you might need to shelter in place. White suggests building your kit gradually. “Start by picking up an extra nonperishable food item or a water bottle on your weekly grocery trip,” he advises. “Before you know it, you’re going to have a decent amount of food and water.”

Your kit must include one gallon of water per person per day for at least three days, with clear plastic bottles recommended for longer shelf life. Add a three-day supply of nonperishable food and a manual can opener. Essential items include a first aid kit, prescription medications, a battery-powered or hand-crank radio, flashlights, and extra batteries. Do not forget a wrench to turn off utilities, plastic sheeting, a whistle, emergency blankets, a change of clothing with sturdy shoes, personal care items, copies of important documents, and cash.

Creating your family plan

A well-practiced plan is what transforms a collection of supplies into a lifeline. “Preparing your family makes everybody a lot calmer,” White notes. Your plan must identify two meeting places: one right outside your home for emergencies like fire, and another outside your neighborhood in case you cannot return home.

Every family should designate an out-of-town contact person. After a disaster, family members can call this relative or friend to relay information, as long-distance calls often go through when local lines are overwhelmed. Complete a family communication plan with all contact information and ensure every member carries a copy.

Practice is non-negotiable. Hold earthquake drills and practice “Drop, Cover, Hold.” Conduct fire drills, ensuring everyone knows two exits from each room. Critically, all adults should know how to shut off your home’s electricity, gas, and water, with the necessary tools kept nearby. Authorities caution that if you turn off gas, only a qualified professional can turn it back on, which could take weeks.

Don’t forget your vehicle

Your car is a key part of your strategy. “Chances are if you’re not at home, your car is going to be nearby,” White observes, or you may need to evacuate quickly. Keep your vehicle’s fuel tank above half full, as stations may be closed during emergencies. Maintain a smaller version of your disaster kit in the car, alongside a safety kit with jumper cables, flares, basic tools, and a paper map.

Special considerations are vital. If you have pets, include food, water, and carriers in your kit. For those with medical conditions or disabilities, plan for necessary equipment and medications. Remember, most public shelters do not accept pets for health reasons, so identify pet-friendly hotels or boarding facilities in advance.

The environmental aftermath of a disaster presents hidden dangers. Floodwater may contain raw sewage or hazardous chemicals. After flooding, mold growth becomes a serious health threat within 24 to 48 hours on wet materials. Standing water also becomes a breeding ground for mosquitoes. Proper cleanup is essential.

Perhaps the most dangerous post-disaster mistake is improper generator use. Officials alert that generator exhaust is toxic. “Always put generators outside well away from doors, windows, and vents,” warns the EPA. “Never use a generator inside homes, garages, crawl spaces, sheds, or similar areas.” Carbon monoxide poisoning is a silent, deadly killer.

True preparedness is not a single action but a maintained lifestyle. Review your plan every six months. Check and rotate your food and water supplies. Test smoke alarms monthly and replace batteries yearly. Conduct family drills. This ongoing commitment transforms fear into confidence.

In our modern world, we have sealed ourselves in tightly constructed homes, often disconnected from the natural rhythms that once guided human resilience. Preparing for disaster reconnects us with a fundamental truth: self-reliance is the first and most important response. Taking these steps today ensures that when the unexpected arrives, your family will not be victims waiting for help, but a capable team ready to respond.

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