David Aguilar

David Aguilar

David Aguilar was born in Andorra, the tiny mountain country wedged between Spain and France, with a rare genetic condition that left him without a right forearm. Growing up, he felt the difference sharply, especially around other boys, and he wanted to look in the mirror and see two hands like everyone else.

The tool he reached for was the one he loved most. At nine years old he built a simple arm from ordinary LEGO bricks. When those turned out to be too fragile for opening doors and gripping objects, he moved on to LEGO Technic, the line built around beams, gears and axles.

Over the following years he dismantled helicopters, jets and cranes from his sets and rebuilt their parts into a series of arms, each one more capable than the last. At 18 he completed a version he called the MK-I, after the suits in Iron Man, with an elbow that bent and a grabber that could pick things up. Guinness World Records named it the first functional LEGO prosthetic arm.

Later models added electric motors, and one has five moving fingers. Aguilar went on to study bioengineering at university, with the goal of making working prosthetic arms cheap enough for people who can’t afford conventional ones.

The boy who once wanted to look like everyone else ended up building arms for other children who felt the way he had.

GQ Interviews Tom Cruise

GQ Interviews Tom Cruise

GQ sits down with the legendary movie star for his first GQ cover shoot and in-depth interview in two decades. See how Cruise approaches work, what advice he’d give to young actors, and why he’s excited about the state of moviemaking today.

Click to view the video: https://gq.visitlink.me/D3u4oq

Create

One who creates has more fun than does the critic.
Have a joyful life!
CREATE!

Quote of the Day

“The first rule is to keep an untroubled spirit. The second, is to look things in the face and know them for what they are.”
Marcus Aurelius – Roman Emperor and Philosopher (121 – 180)

Ups and Downs

Ups and Downs

The downs in your life are not mental illnesses or abnormalities to be suppressed with mind-altering psychotropic medications. They are a natural part of the ebb and flow, the yin and yang of life.

If you ever feel that the down is too deep or too long I have written an article containing several ways to address that:  https://www.tomgrimshaw.com/tomsblog/?p=14412

And I have more up my sleeve if you wish to erase all the pain from your life so you can be happier and more creative.

An Open Letter to the University of Sydney Regarding the appointment of Jacinda Ardern as Professor of Practice

Dear Professor Scott,

I read with absolute disgust that the University of Sydney has appointed Jacinda Ardern as Professor of Practice, where she will apparently be sharing her wisdom on empathetic leadership, social cohesion and civic trust.

You cannot be serious.

You are quoted as saying:

“Dame Jacinda led New Zealand through events of profound consequence and her leadership demonstrated that empathy and resolve do not compete with one another; each can strengthen the other.”

Appointing Jacinda Ardern to teach social cohesion is rather like appointing Jeffrey Dahmer to teach a course on wellbeing, or Jimmy Savile to run the local daycare centre. The sheer absurdity would almost be funny if the consequences of her leadership weren’t so hideously tragic.

My name is Alia Bland. I am a co-founder of Voices for Freedom, an organisation established in New Zealand in 2020. For years, we stood alongside tens of thousands of ordinary Kiwis whose lives were torn apart by the policies of Ardern’s government.

While the international media fawned over her kindness and compassion, we were dealing with the wreckage.

At the height of the COVID response, we were receiving upwards of 1,000 emails a day. Desperate people reaching out because they had lost their jobs, their incomes, their homes and, in many cases, their will to live.

People nearing retirement were forced to sell family homes they had spent decades paying off. Some are still living in caravans five years later.

Marriages collapsed. Families fractured. Lifelong friendships were destroyed. People who had served their communities for decades were suddenly treated like lepers because they declined a medical procedure.

Some of the people who came to us had spent their entire lives believing New Zealand was a decent, fair-minded country. Watching that belief crumble, and seeing what it did to them, was heartbreaking.

I cannot adequately describe the anguish in those emails. The desperation of parents wondering how they would feed and house their families. The humiliation of hardworking people being marched out of professions they loved. The despair of people who had done everything society asked of them, only to discover that their own government considered them disposable.

And presiding over it all was Jacinda Ardern, smiling for the cameras and telling the world how kind New Zealand was.

Kind? For whom?

Her government deliberately created a two-class society. Ardern herself acknowledged it publicly. New Zealanders were excluded from workplaces, businesses, events and ordinary social life. People were coerced into accepting a medical intervention under threat of losing their livelihoods.

And those who suffered adverse reactions to the COVID vaccines faced another nightmare. We fought for vaccine-injured New Zealanders whose lives had been devastated by serious physical harm, while many struggled to have their injuries acknowledged or receive adequate support.

The government’s public assurances about vaccine safety deserve particular scrutiny. Officials knew about the myocarditis risk, including among young people. We have examined the records. Yet people raising legitimate questions about those risks were routinely dismissed and vilified.

The damage went far beyond lost incomes and broken relationships. An enormous number of New Zealanders lost faith in the very institutions they had trusted their entire lives. Government, health authorities, education, police and the media. That trust has not magically returned because Ardern has moved on to more prestigious surroundings.

While her government was busy marginalising people, we were building a nationwide support network to help them survive.

Voices for Freedom grew to more than 100,000 people on our mailing list, many representing entire families. More than 45,000 people signed up to our local groups across the country, which are still operational today in 2026. We established industry groups to help people fight for their careers, provided support through employment disputes and legal challenges, organised practical assistance and hand-delivered millions of flyers to households throughout New Zealand.

We did this while facing censorship, public vilification and government surveillance. Official records obtained since have confirmed that our activities and communications were being monitored and reported on.

Our volunteers gave everything they could to help people who had been abandoned by the institutions meant to protect them.

And now the University of Sydney wants to hold up the woman responsible for overseeing this period as a shining example of empathy and social cohesion?

It is sickening.

Professor Scott, did anyone at your university bother to speak with the people whose lives were destroyed under Ardern’s leadership before celebrating her appointment?

Have you spoken to the former nurses, teachers and police officers who lost their careers? The families who lost their homes? The people still suffering from vaccine injuries? The parents whose children no longer speak to them?

Or did you simply swallow the carefully cultivated international image of Saint Jacinda, the compassionate leader who saved New Zealand?

I wonder whether you have considered why this internationally celebrated former prime minister now lives in Australia rather than the country she once led. The depth of hostility towards her among many New Zealanders should give you pause.

Because I can assure you, there is another side to that story. And there are hundreds of thousands of New Zealanders who live with the consequences.

I have no objection to universities studying Ardern’s leadership. In fact, I would encourage it. There is an enormous amount to learn from what happened in New Zealand between 2021 and 2023. Like, what not to do…

But presenting her as someone uniquely qualified to teach empathy, social cohesion and civic trust, without acknowledging the extraordinary human suffering that occurred under her leadership, is an insult to the people who paid the price.

We were there, Professor Scott. We saw what happened. We picked up the pieces. We are still picking them up.

Some of those people will never recover what they lost.

And the woman who presided over it all gets a professorship in empathy.

What an absolute disgrace.

Yours sincerely,

Alia Bland
Co-founder, Voices for Freedom
New Zealand

How To Change The World

You are either happy with the world as it is or you are not.

If you are perfectly happy with your own life and the society around you then probably perceive no need to change. If so, I encourage you to look a little closer then come back to this article.

I your assessment is that the world could stand some improvement, then read on.

Organisations Beat Individuals
I am writing this 9 days after reading the following:
On October 8, 2026, former Kennedy campaign adviser Tiffany Cianci released the MAHA Movement Scorecard, examining 42 commitments involving food, farming, pesticides, toxic chemicals, regulatory capture, and related health policies. The scorecard’s authors classified 37 commitments as broken and five as partially fulfilled, with none fully met.

Those are the scorecard authors’ assessments of the administration’s record, not independent findings that Kennedy personally controlled every disputed decision.

In an October 14 essay, Elizabeth Kucinich, who helped organize Kennedy’s independent presidential campaign, argued that the administration had abandoned important MAHA priorities involving pesticides, environmental protections, agricultural policy, and corporate influence. She wrote:

“This Administration has stabbed RFK Jr. in the back, and we all know it. It has benefited from his credibility and the constituency he brought while advancing policies that undermine his mission. Supporting him means naming that betrayal and demanding a change of course.”

From: https://www.malone.news/p/follow-the-money-the-political-book

Then 4 days ago Calley Means resigned from HHS over lack of progress. Means said,

“I leave with tremendous respect for President Trump and RFK — two historic figures who are committed to confronting a corrupt DC bureaucracy that is doing everything possible to protect the status quo.”

The article continues: “MAHA advocates such as Vani Hari and Kelly Ryerson, outspoken allies of Kennedy and Means, argued that the administration’s actions favored corporate interests over MAHA voters, calling it a gut punch that the movement has yet to recover from.”

From: https://www.politico.com/news/2026/10/22/calley-means-top-maha-ally-resigns-from-trump-administration-01132073

These results reinforce my view that despite personal charisma and apparently powerful positions, well intentioned, competent individuals will not hold ground against entrenched orgainisational opposition.

Effective change does not stem from the top without substantial support from below.

No, lasting change is most likely to result from a groundswell of change in the public consciousness, a demand from the masses.

And since the masses are made up of individuals, the best way to effect lasting change is to change the actions of individuals, one at a time.

Similarly, you cannot legislate honesty, ethics, morality or sanity. The 25% of people who are destructive do not follow rules. They cannot. Apart from a lack of self-respect, the thing that makes a criminal a criminal is that he cannot adhere to the law.

So, how do the constructively inclined of us change the world for the better? So that change lasts?

My best answer to that question is that each of us work at becoming the best person we can and help others to do the same.

It’s simple pattern to adopt:
-Keep learning
-Apply what you learn so you grow in awareness, competence, power and influence
-Share and help others do the same
-Replicate – ask them to do the same
-Repeat

Learn – Grow – Share – Replicate – Repeat

As an encouragement to pursue personal growth I share the advice of Jessie Potter, the featured speaker at the seventh annual Woman to Woman conference:
“If you always do what you’ve always done, you always get what you’ve always gotten.”

To help you along the road to higher awareness, competence, productivity and effectiveness I have penned a series of article and posted them on my blog https://www.tomgrimshaw.com/tomsblog/ Search for them under the category “Living Your Best Life”.

If you would like an article on another area not yet covered, drop me a line.

Here’s to you. May you flourish and prosper!

Cheers,

Tom Grimshaw
tom@tomgrimshaw.com
+61 (0)412 966 625

A Loon On A Lake

A Loon On A Lake

A woman delivering groceries in the rain stopped for a big black and white bird dragging itself across a parking lot, and everyone standing around it was sure both its legs were broken, until a stranger on the phone asked her one question.
“Is the ground wet?”
Deb Lindqvist is 54. She lives in St. Cloud, Minnesota.
For 26 years she worked at a printing plant on the edge of town. In August 2024, the plant closed. Ninety one people lost their jobs in one afternoon.
Deb sent out applications every morning. Most never got an answer.
So in the evenings she delivered groceries through an app on her phone. Bags in the back seat, a phone clipped to the dashboard, six or seven dollars a trip.
She didn’t tell many people. She said she felt like she’d gone from somebody who knew exactly what she was doing to somebody who didn’t know where she was supposed to be.
On Tuesday, the 29th of October, it rained all evening. Hard, cold rain, the kind that comes before the first snow.
At about 10:40 p.m., she was loading her last order outside a grocery store on the east side of town.
That’s when she saw a group of people standing in a circle in the middle of the parking lot.
In the middle of the circle, on the wet asphalt, was a bird.
It was big. Bigger than a duck. Black head, a sharp grey beak, a white chest and a black back covered in tiny white squares.
It was trying to move. It pushed itself forward on its belly, flapped, and fell flat again.
A teenager was filming it. A man in a store vest said it must have been hit by a car. Somebody else said its legs were broken.
A woman brought a plastic bowl of water and set it down by the bird’s face. It didn’t drink.
Two men tried to nudge it with a shopping cart toward the grass strip by the road. The bird panicked, flapped hard, and slid across the puddles into a parking space.
Deb said it was the most helpless thing she had ever seen.
She called animal control. Closed until morning.
She called the police non emergency line. They gave her the number for a wildlife rehab center.
A volunteer called back ten minutes later. His name was Joel. He’s 47 and he has driven injured birds around central Minnesota for 15 years.
Deb described it. Joel listened.
Then he asked, “Is the ground wet?”
She looked at the parking lot. Rain was still coming down. Every space was shining under the yellow lights.
“Like a lake,” she said.
“That’s a loon,” Joel said. “And I don’t think its legs are broken.”
He explained.
Loons spend almost their whole lives on water. Their legs are set so far back on their bodies that they can’t walk on land. On the ground, all they can do is push themselves along on their bellies.
And they can’t take off from land at all. A loon needs a long run across open water, sometimes hundreds of feet, to get into the air.
At the end of October, loons fly south at night. In heavy rain, from high up, a wet parking lot under streetlights looks exactly like water.
“It came down to land on a lake,” Joel said. “It found out too late it was concrete.”
It wasn’t hurt. It was stranded.
Joel told her exactly what to do. Don’t put it in water. Don’t let anyone grab it. Keep your face away from the beak, because loons stab.
Deb took the beach towel she kept in her trunk. She dropped it over the bird, slid her hands underneath, and lifted it into an empty box from the store.
It was heavier than she expected. About ten pounds. It went completely still in the dark.
She kept the box on her passenger seat with the heater on low and waited 40 minutes for Joel.
The teenager who had been filming asked if he could wait too. He stood under the store awning the whole time.
When Joel arrived, he looked in the box with a flashlight and smiled.
“Young one,” he said. “Born this summer. Probably its first trip south.”
He took the loon to the rehab center overnight. A vet checked it. No broken bones. No lead in its blood. Just a sore chest and a few scraped feathers.
The next afternoon, Joel called Deb and asked if she wanted to come to the release.
She almost said no. She had deliveries.
She went anyway.
They drove to a big lake north of town. Grey water, bare trees, nobody else around.
Joel set the box at the edge of the water and opened it.
The loon sat still for a few seconds. Then it slid out, pushed into the lake, and was suddenly a completely different animal.
It dived. It came up 30 feet away. It shook its head and called, a long, low sound across the water.
Then it turned, ran across the surface with its wings beating, ran and ran, and lifted off.
Deb said she didn’t realize she was crying until Joel handed her a tissue.
“People always think they’re broken,” Joel told her. “They’re not broken. They’re just somewhere they can’t take off from.”
Deb drove home without turning the radio on.
She still delivers groceries. She’s also started volunteering for the rehab center on her nights off, driving birds to the vet and to lakes.
In January, she got a job in the office of a school district. She starts work at seven every morning.
She kept the beach towel in her trunk.
“Just in case it rains,” she says.
Sometimes nothing is wrong with you. You just landed somewhere that only looked like the right place.